Beyond the Score: Why Standardized Tests Fail Our Neurodivergent Kids
As a speech-language pathologist, I have a confession to make: I have a growing problem with standardized assessments. For years, these tests have been the gold standard, the gatekeepers to services, and the definitive measure of a child’s abilities. We’re taught to trust the scores, the percentiles, and the neat little boxes they place children into. But I’m here to say it’s time we question that trust. It’s time we rock the boat.
From a neurodiversity-affirming perspective, my job isn’t to “fix” a child who communicates differently. My role is to understand, support, and advocate for their unique communication style. And frankly, standardized tests are often a barrier, not a bridge, to achieving that goal.
The Flaw in the “Standard”
The very concept of a “standardized” assessment is rooted in the idea of a single, “normal” way of communicating and developing. These tests are designed by neurotypical people, for neurotypical people. They measure a child’s performance against a neurotypical average, immediately setting up our neurodivergent children to be seen as deficient.
Think about the testing environment itself. A quiet room, a strange adult, a series of structured, often rigid tasks that may hold little meaning for the child. We ask them to point to pictures, repeat sentences, and answer decontextualized questions. Is this how communication happens in the real world? Of course not.
For an autistic child, a child with ADHD, or any neurodivergent individual, this environment can be incredibly stressful and dysregulating. The demand to perform in a specific, unnatural way can mask their true abilities. The test might show they can’t label an object on a flashcard, but it won’t show you that they can script entire movie scenes to express their joy or use their favorite toy to tell a complex story.
Standardized assessments measure compliance and performance in a sterile bubble. They do not, and cannot, measure competence, creativity, or connection.
Presuming Competence: The Only True Starting Point
The most fundamental principle of a neurodiversity-affirming approach is to presume competence. This means we start with the unwavering belief that every single person has intelligence, capacity, and a desire to connect. We assume they can learn and that they do understand, even if they can’t show us in a way we expect.
Standardized tests often do the opposite. They are designed to find deficits. They encourage us to look for what’s “wrong” or “missing” instead of what’s present. When we focus on a low score, we stop looking for the child’s strengths. We stop being curious about their unique way of seeing and interacting with the world.
Presuming competence means we become detectives, not judges. We observe a child in their natural environment. We talk to their family. We learn what lights them up, what they love, and how they express themselves when they feel safe and comfortable. We see the whole child, not just the percentile rank.
Moving Toward Meaningful Assessment
So, what’s the alternative? How do we identify needs and support growth without these outdated tools? We shift our focus from standardized scores to authentic assessment.
This looks like:
- Dynamic Assessment: Instead of just testing what a child knows, we see how they learn and what support helps them succeed. This is a collaborative process, not a rigid test.
- Naturalistic Observation: We watch a child play with their siblings and peers, interact with their parents, and engage in their favorite activities. This is where true communication happens.
- Records Reviews: We gather samples of a child’s communication in different contexts: drawings, writing, videos of them talking or using their AAC device. This creates a rich, holistic picture of their abilities.
- Collaborative Interviews: We listen to the people who know the child best: their family. We also listen to the child themselves, honoring their own experience and perspective whenever possible.
These methods don’t spit out a neat score that an insurance company can easily process. They require more time, more skill, and more clinical judgment. They ask us to see the child in front of us as an individual, not a data point.
It’s time for our field to be bold. We must challenge the systems that force us to pathologize differences. We must advocate for assessment practices that honor the full humanity of every neurodivergent person. Our children deserve more than a score. They deserve to be seen, understood, and celebrated for exactly who they are.
SHOLEH SHAHINFAR
M.A. CCC-SLP, RYT
Sholeh Shahinfar is the Founder of Valued Voices, a licensed Speech Language Pathologist, Child Communication Specialist and Certified Oral Motor Therapist. She is passionate about uplifting children’s voices in the world and inspiring self-expression. In her free time, Sholeh embraces a vegan lifestyle, loves going to the ocean, exploring nature with her pup Kobe, practicing yoga, traveling, and spending time with her loved ones.

